Day 134: My Experiment

Co- dependency.

The co-dependents are bedeviled by volitional blindness, guilt, and  “self-serving”. The complexity of the people – pleaser needing to please and be pleased in conjunction with the person apparently pleased are inseparable. Both succumb by feeding the other the blood of irresponsibility laying blame at the feet of the other. In the name of pleasing  the virus of irresponsibility is passed onto the other all the while claiming virtue via guilt and false responsibility. Such a conundrum can only be broken by having the courage to dispel people-pleasing aligned with pathological self-serving guilt.  Service to self is the antivenin.